Jeremiah (Joseph) Crutchley
Jeremiah Crutchley was born in 1745. His father, Jeremiah Sr, had been a close friend of Henry Thrale's father - Ralph Thrale. The Crutchley family were successful dyers in Clink Street, Southwark where Jeremiah, Sr. also ran a brewery.
When Jeremiah, Sr. died1 at 43 years of age, Jeremiah, Jr., was six years old2, and the Thrales acted as guardians with both Ralph Thrale and Henry Thrale receiving bequests, and both serving as executors of his estate, together with Alice Crutchley, his widow, and Thomas Wimbush, his clerk. Henry continuing in this protective capacity after Ralph Thrale died.
When in his twenties, Jeremiah Crutchley, was to be a constant visitor to Streatham and to the Southwark house. He was also godfather to Anna Maria Thrale, an Executors to Henry Thrale's will, and present when Henry Thrale died. Mrs. Thrale began to think that Jeremiah Crutchley was her husband's natural son. However every legal source sustains Jeremiah's legitimacy.
Jeremiah Crutchley, Sr., was married at St. Paul's Cathedral on 4 March 1742 to Alice Jackson, from a good Devon and Cumberland family. Their first child was a daughter, Alice, who was born in June 1744 but lived for only a few days. Jeremiah was born on 20 December 17453; a daughter, Elizabeth, was born in October 1747; a second son, John, was born in October 1749 and died 1752; and another daughter named Alice in July 1751.
The Crutchley family Bible at Mappercombe Manor names all the godparents, and Henry Thrale appears, not as Jeremiah's godfather, as has sometimes been said, but as godfather to the younger son, John, who lived only to the age of two and a half, dying in 1752, ten days after his father. In his will Jeremiah, Sr., who died on 29 March 1752 provided generously for his wife and all his children, and showed his "dear son Jeremiah" the preference due to an elder son and heir.
Strangely mixed up of Meanness and Magnificence—liberal & splendid in large Sums, & on serious Occasions; narrow and confined in the common Occurrences of Life; warm & generous in some of his Notions.
Jeremiah Crutchley bought Sunninghill Park in Berkshire on 8 June 1769 from Thomas Draper Baber 4.
Crutchley was elected as Member of Parliament for…
He was one of the Executors to Henry Thrale's will, and was present when Henry Thrale died.
On 17 May 1781 Hester Thrale wrote the following account of Jeremiah Crutchley in Thraliana, as follows…
Mr Crutcheley lives now a great deal with me; the Business of Executor to Mr Thrale's Will makes much of his Attendance necessary; and it begins to have its full Effect in seducing and attaching him to the house: Miss Burney's being always about me is probably another Reason for his close Attendance, & I believe it is so—what better could befall Miss Burney? or indeed what better Cd befall him, than to obtain a Woman of Honour; & character, & Reputation for superior Understanding—I would be glad however that he fell honestly in Love with her; & was not tricked or trapp'd into Marriage poor Fellow: he is no Match for the Arts of a Novel-writer. A mighty particular Character Mr Crutcheley is: strangely mixed up of Meanness and Magnificence—liberal & splendid in large Sums, & on serious Occasions; narrow and confined in the common Occurrences of Life; warm & generous in some of his Notions, frigid & suspicious however for 18 Hours at least out of the 24. likely to be duped, though always expecting fraud; and easily disappointed in realities, though seldom flattered by Fancy. He is supposed by those that knew his Mother & her Connections, to be Mr Thrale's natural Son,& in many Things he resembles him, but not in Person; as he is both ugly & aukward. Mr Thrale certainly believed he was his Son, & once told me as much, when Sophy Streatfields affair was in question; but nobody could perswade him to court the S:S:5.
Although Jeremiah Crutchley never married, it was said at different times that he was in love with Queeney Thrale and later Fanny Burney.
On 26 September 1778 Fanny Burney wrote…
The present chief sport with Mrs. Thrale is disposing of me in the holy state of matrimony, and she offers me whoever comes to the house. This was begun by Mrs. Montagu, who, it seems, proposed a match for me in my absence, with Sir Joshua Reynolds!-no less a man, I assure you!
When I was dressing for dinner, Mrs. Thrale told me that Mr. Crutchley was expected.
"Who's he?" quoth I.
"A young man of very large fortune, who was a ward of Mr. Thrale. Queeny, what do you say of him for Miss Burney?"
"Him?" cried she; "no, indeed; what has Miss Burney done to have him?"
"Nay, believe me, a man of his fortune may offer himself anywhere. However, I won't recommend him."
"Why then, ma'am," cried I, with dignity, "I reject him!"
This Mr. Crutchley stayed till after breakfast the next morning. I can't tell you anything, of him, because I neither like nor dislike him. Mr. Crutchley was scarce gone, ere Mr. Smith arrived. Mr. Smith is a second cousin to Mr. Thrale, and a modest pretty sort of young man. He stayed till Friday morning. When he was gone,
"What say you to him, Miss Burney?" cried Mrs. Thrale; "I'm sure I offer you variety."
"Why I like him better than Mr. Crutchley, but I don't think I shall pine for either of them."
Dr. Johnson," said Mrs. Thrale, "don't you think Jerry Crutchley very much improved?"
Dr. J.-Yes, madam, I think he is.
Mrs. T.-Shall he have Miss Burney?
Dr. J.-Why, I think not; at least I must know more about him; I Must inquire into his connections, his recreations, his employments, and his character, from his intimates, before I trust Miss Burney with him. And he must come down very handsomely with a settlement. I will not have him left to his generosity; for as he will marry her for her wit, and she him for his fortune, he ought to bid well, and let him come down with what he will, his price will never be equal to her worth.
Mrs. T.-She says she likes Mr. Smith better.
Dr. J.-Yes, but I won't have her like Mr. Smith without money, better than Mr. Crutchley with it. Besides, if she has Crutchley, he will use her well, to vindicate his choice. the world, madam, has a reasonable claim upon all mankind to account for their conduct; therefore, if with his great wealth, he marries a woman who has but little, he will be more attentive to display her merit, than if she was equally rich,—in order to show that the woman he has chosen deserves from the world all the respect and admiration it can bestow, or that else she would not have been his choice.
Mrs. T.-I believe young Smith is the better man.
F.B.-Well, I won't be rash in thinking of either; I will take some time for consideration before I fix.
On 17 September 1781 Hester Thrale wrote about Jeremiah Crutchley and Fanny Burney in Thraliana…
l begin to wish in good earnest that Miss Burney should make Impression on Mr Crutchley; I think She honestly loves the Man, in his Turn appears to be in Love with some one else—Hester6 I fear! Oh that would indeed be unlucky! People have said so a long while, but I never thought it till now: Young Men & Women will always be serving one so to be sure, if live at all together; but I depended on Burney keeping him steady to herself. Queeney behaves like an Angel about it.
Because Crutchley never married, his estate was inherited at his death on 28 December 1805 aged 60 by George Henry Duffield, the eldest son of his second sister, Alice, who took the surname of Crutchley. Jeremiah is buried in the same tomb with his father and his infant brother, John7 Because Crutchley never married, his estate was inherited at his death on 28 December 1805 aged 60 by George Henry Duffield, the eldest son of his second sister, Alice, who took the surname of Crutchley.
- 1. In 1752.
- 2. Jeremiah was born in 1745.
- 3. Henry Thrale at this time was 17.
- 4. Source: 'Parishes: Sunninghill', A History of the County of Berkshire: Volume 3 (1923), pp. 134-136. Date accessed: 28 December 2009.
- 5. Sophy Streatfield.
- 6. Queeney.
- 7. Tomb 210, in the cemetery at Lee, a town which is now part of Kent.
Mike Crutchley (not verified)
17 March 2003 - 6:33pm
Looking at your fascinating website Thrale.com, I see you mention Jeremiah Crutchley of Sunninghill Park. The Crutchley family have always maintained that Jeremiah was legitimate. Henry Thrale must have been a very precocious little boy to have sired Jeremiah Crutchley as a teenager. We believe that Hester Thrale raised the subject as a result of her poor relationship with the cold Henry Thrale. Just an observation.
Jeremiah Crutchley had three sisters and one brother. The first sister died an infant (b. & d. June 1744).
The next child was Elizabeth (8/10/1747 - 5/11/1837) she was unmarried, which was why Sunninghill went to her younger sister's eldest boy, but we have evidence that she lived out her life at the Park.
Jerry's little brother John (8/10/1749 - 4/4/1752) died very shortly after his father Jeremiah Snr.
I'm not sure I agree with Hester Thrale about Fanny Burney. In Madame D'arblay, Fanny implies that 'Jerry' was rude, and that she did not think him a good match for her. Some also say that he was pug ugly. He was very fond of one of Hester's daughters (off the top of my head I think it was Cecilia - wasn't he her godfather or something? I think it was mentioned in the book Thrales of Streatham Park).
She had built for him a fine set of entrance gates at Sunninghill Park. The supports are still there, as are a lot of Crutchley stuff. Prince Andrew one said to me "you Crutchley's are everywhere there". Jeremiah Senior was a "Brewer and Dyer", and I would be interested to hear if there was a business interest there with Henry Thrale.
24 March 2003 - 12:40am
Ugly? Can't be a Thrale!
Hi Mike, great to hear from you. Henry Thrale's birth is unclear. But based on the information available, he would have been aged between 15 and 21 years old when Jeremiah was born. Mary Hyde says he was 17 and she speculates that he was not Henry Thrale's child.
Hester Thrale said:
However, if Jeremiah was ugly I'm sure he couldn't be a Thrale! I guess we'll never know. Even DNA testing of his descendant won't tell us as both Jeremiah and Henry have no living descendants.
Jeremiah was godfather to Anna Maria Thrale, not Cecilia Thrale.
Many thanks for the information about Jeremiah's family. I have added this information onto the Thrale.com family tree. Along with some other stuff I have discovered. I have also updated Jeremiah's genealogy.
As regards Jeremiah snr's profession of brewer and dyer, Jeremiah snr, had been a close friend of Henry's father, Ralph Thrale (the Crutchley family had been dyers in Clink Street, Southwark which was near Ralph Thrale's brewery). I have also added some information about the nature of their business and personal friendship on Jeremiah's page.
Do let me know if you have any more information or questions.
Thrale.com owner: David Thrale | My blog | Family motto: In cruce confido
Anonymous (not verified)
19 January 2008 - 3:14am
Which Mrs Crutchley was engaged to Jane Austen's brother?
For several years now I have been researching your family genealogy as part of my research into the family and interests of the author, Jane Austen. There is an intriguing reference in one of Jane Austen's letters to the possibility that she expected her brother to become engaged to a Mrs. Crutchley (Presumably widowed, although the term "Mrs." was sometimes used as a term of respect for an elderly spinster of the same maiden name).
Here are extracts of two earlier letters:
Wednesday 24th August 1814 - referring to her brother Henry who had been previously married to their cousin, Eliza de Feuillde, née Hancock, goddaughter and putative natural daughter of the famous Warren Hastings. Note that in this same letter Jane makes the suggestion that Henry will marry again soon to his "Hanwell favourite", Miss Harriet Moore, and that it might have been a standing joke between Jane and her sister Cassandra that Henry was going to marry anyone and everyone.
Friday September 2nd 1814
The Jane Austen sources have suggested that this is the widow of Jeremiah Crutchley
Deirdre Le Faye, Jane Austen's Letters
But as you and I know, this is not possible as Jeremiah was not married. The question then remains: which Mrs. Crutchley was Jane Austen referring to and how did Jane's brother Henry know her?
She was evidently resident at Sunning Hill and therefore must be the correct Crutchley family. Also, who are the Birches who seem to be their friends?
George Henry Duffield, Jeremiah's nephew through his sister Alice, inherited Sunning Hill in 1805 and became a Crutchley. Was Jane referring to George Henry's wife, Julia Crutchley née Burrell? Julia Burrell née Crutchley was a cousin of another of Jane Austen's sisters-in-law through Peregrine Bertie, Duke of Ancaster? She was alive in 1814 and would have been the same age or a little younger than Jane Austen and her brother Henry.
George Henry Duffield / Crutchley was still alive in 1814 and it was unlikely that Jane Austen would suggest her brother might marry or have as a favourite an already married woman. However, bear in mind Jane Austen was famed for her witty repartee and "in jokes" with her sister Cassandra and this "favourite Mrs Crutchley" that she speculated her brother might marry at any moment could have been any age from 19 to 90.
Mrs. Duffield, née Alice Crutchley (1751 - 1833), Jeremiah's sister was still alive; could she have been the putative "Mrs. Crutchley"?
Also you write:
I see David Thrale concurs with this in his answer to you.
I would be extremely interested in any insights you have into this conundrum. I am currently working on the theory that Jane Austen may have immortalised one of your Crutchley ancestors in one of her novels, or certainly used some of his traits and situation as an inspiration for one of her characters. I would love to know if there are any family papers extant that may shed some light on this and would be very grateful for any information you may have.
I believe Mary Hyde, Viscountess Eccles wrote a great deal on the Thrale family before her death in 2003 (she and her previous husband were Samuel Johnson collectors and researchers). There is a folder at Harvard about her correspondence with Eileen and Peter Holdcroft concerning Jeremiah Crutchley in the mid-1970's. Any idea who they are? Could it be Sir Peter Holdcroft of Shrewsbury?
As to the suggestion that Jeremiah was in fact Thrale's son - a great mystery to which I wish we knew the answer. There are two estimations of his age based on his grave and Henry Thrale's own reckoning. According to Thrale's usual reckoning of his age he would have been about 19 and Jeremiah's mother would have been about 22 when Jeremiah was conceived. Henry Thrale's grave would lead us to believe Henry Thrale was much younger at Jeremiah's conception (about 15 and therefore unlikely). Certainly Thrale was known to have had many affairs but whether these included respectable women such as the married Mrs. Crutchley (married to a family friend, no less) there is no evidence as yet. For the purposes of my research - connected to Fanny Burney (another writer much admired by Jane Austen), a particular friend of Mrs. Thrale, what counts is what Mrs. Thrale believed and was likely to have hinted to Fanny Burney. Mrs. Thrale was known for her tendency to gossip and she certainly speculated in writing that Jeremiah was indeed her husband's son at Henry Thrale's own admission. I believe Mrs. Thrale may have been motivated to perpetuate this partly because she wished to discredit her first husband as her second husband was not well-liked in her circle of friends.
Crutchley was one of Thrale's executors. He was also suggested as a beau for both Hester Thrale and for Fanny Burney at one time. If you know anything about these relationships it would be pivotal to my research and could throw some new light on Jane Austen's writings.
64 Wood Street
(08) 9385 4809
Anonymous (not verified)
24 June 2012 - 11:14am
Julia (Burrell) Crutchley?
Mike Crutchley contacted me in response to your posting. He said...